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Relish the Relinquishment!

It’s Better to Give Way…

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Leaving space for the youngsters at proper time is really an important and sane activity. Elders , peers, parents, teachers, all require to accommodate youth whenever, wherever necessary.

Responsibilities are to be essentially shared at one point of your life. It is not a defeat rather passing on your legacies and enable your successors to replace you at some reasonable phase of your life to carry on further is an essential game plan. The success of a successor is the success of his predecessor. Entrusting might not seem so convenient but it is indispensable.

It is wise to be quite ready for the transference of powers to your juniors. Things will get worse if we delay considerably at any level whether it is inside a family or in any other social institution.

Negligence in the bequeathment is quite obvious due to various reasons.

  • The authoritative and dogmatic attitude of elders create narrow- mindedness which in turn creates ambiguity and does not allow one to think rationally.
  • The veterans consider themselves an exclusive authority. They do not want to think themselves depending upon their juniors rather inexperienced lads according to them. There is no substitute of experience and this fact is beyond any doubt. But experience is gained when opportunity is assigned. If young blood finds way to progress totally blocked, how can they try to excel and come in the fore fronts?
  • No one is perfect. Experienced people may need innovation to keep pace with the ever growing world. Young people are generally equipped with novel ideas which veterans may lack. Veterans should transform themselves into such a flexible entity to produce a solid amalgam of old and new. New comers must be welcomed. The aspirants may help veterans achieve glory in any field of life. Superfluous and extravagant imaginations and fascinations of youth should be dealt shrewdly otherwise they may lose spark to bring about a huge change.
  • There is another important aspect in the regard. Sharing your responsibilities with your juniors is a very durable and elegant way to retain your name. You being parents feel quite satisfactory when you see your kids a step ahead of you. You will be quite relaxed when you watch your kids assumes your driving seat and you sit by the side watching the proceedings.
  • This view is quite refreshing and soothing. When your kids share your burden, you will have more time to ponder over other things you ignored earlier in the hard work of becoming experienced. Its good to make others follow you but it is better to follow others and impart them your experiences so that acme of success may be attained.

It is generally witnessed that experienced fellows adopt harsh attitude and measures to train their juniors. Physical and verbal afflictions are made. I have seen many parents, teachers, drivers, mechanics, and high officials doing this absurdity. Strictness required to create and maintain discipline is fine, no doubt. But if it is done for the sake of punishment in each and every matter as a habit or as a display of authoritative behaviour, that is unbearable and it generally does not serve the purpose. Discipline must be maintained under all circumstances but humiliating juniors in the name of training just brings calamity which is undesired. Experienced people may be seen generally letting down their juniors due to their various psychological issues. Such an attitude develops a vicious cycle as the juniors adopt the same attitude when they grow up and gain experience and this cyclic revolution create disharmony, hate for work, disrespect for the elders, misunderstandings, psychological and social issues etc.

Another important thing fellows. Some parents want to relieve themselves off from the burden of responsibilities in an unthinking manner. I am against those parents who share avoidable responsibilities with their kids at an early age before time. For example, permission of driving a motor vehicle is allotted so early. The minors are given some role sometimes a significant role in the business set up of their parents. This is insane in my view. I have seen such non aged children under performing in their studies or in the activities they are supposed to be master in. This weird step also makes kids vulnerable to various seen and unseen threats and perils.

I opine kids should be given trusted but not before time. They should be trusted after proper training at proper age and proper time. Otherwise, there are a lot of incidents worldwide that reveal the severe outcomes like prolonged disabilities or even terrible deaths.

So, it is better to give way to the youngsters. Make them learn things on their own under vigilant surveillance . Use your experiences to refine their faculties. Hard earned experiences must be utilized properly to groom youngsters in each and every walk of life.

We must realize that the life goes on . If you do not pass on your experiences, people will find alternatives. They will get into some other reliable helping source to help them get experience in any particular field. However, you will lose the privilege to become a noble peer. You will be a loser and your will not be respected either. Your narrow mindedness will narrow down the scope of your living standard.

Be generous, charitable, support your juniors and kids overwhelmingly. Don’t be tyrannical as domineering attitude may suppress the abilities of your ward. Help them sort out things under proper guidance. Enjoy the interactive relationship with your juniors and soothe your soul with the thought that your legacies have been properly handed over to the relevant successors. Take a step back, breathe a sigh of relief, and relish the relinquishment!

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